So i went to my first fitting yesterday.
The dress was as gorgeous as i remembered.
I ordered a dress for 5'9 height b/c i was wearing 4 inch heels (I'm 5'5)- as instructed to do by the salon i tried the dress on at initially. However, I guess maybe its "hem to hollow" so the dress is slightly longer than expected AND I was wearing 4.5 inch heels.
We fixed it easily by pulling the one of the crinoline layers higher, which pushes out the dress - thus making it shorter.
Part of the problem was also that the dress kept falling a little. I had one of those body shapers on, and it made things a bit too slippery underneath.
So once we pulled that off, and brought the dress up a little - it looked much better. The dress fit EVERYWHERE even with room to give in various spots, but for this...
My biggest problem (of my life)... and I asked my MOH/cousin to photograph this as incentive for me to work out...
Do you see that? It's muffin top of the back. OMG... really? WHY? I can lose 20 more lbs and my arms and "return of the back fat" won't go away... It'll all just fall off my thighs and butt (yes i know, for some that would be a dream but in this case, nobody will see my thighs and butt and everybody WILL see my arms)!!!
I've been doing push ups and tons of cardio. I need good advice on how to fix this in 10 weeks. Please keep in mind - i'm the body type where I bulk up fast with weights... but i do have 5 lbs hand weights at home. I know i should probably do yoga/pilates to stretch my limbs (they are short and stubby - compared to my MIL who is several inches shorter than me but has longer arms and my cousin who is my height and one WHOLE hand longer in her arms).
I can't stop looking and thinking about how ugly that muffin top is... and its making me sad. What can i do? Any advice that has worked for you? Any of you ladies also top heavy? Where that's your problem area?
And I think i can cover it a little if i keep my hair down... like this:
HELP ME!!!!! Any constructive suggestions and comments that will help motivate me please :)